A Pretty Nice Haul

Summer had come for college students, Omar Soliman and Nick Friedman. Both were planning on relaxing on their summer break. The only obstacle for them was the lack of beer money.

Omar’s mother was not down with enabling a summer of beer drinking and doing absolutely nothing on her dime.  He and Nick would have to earn their keep over the summer and fund their own beer habit.

Mom owned a furniture store and Omar remembered people were always moving things. Omar was the visionary. He figured they could borrow their mom’s van and clean junk out of a few garages over the summer. That would be good enough to keep their beer on ice and flowing.

A partnership of two brothers and a micro-business was born.  The business became College Hunks Hauling Junk. The business name was a stroke of marketing genius. Who could turn down a couple of college students working over their summer break.

They created fliers, dropped them around a local neighborhood, and waited for business. Within three hours the phone began ringing. The brothers had their first job cleaning out a garage. That job earned the brothers $220. By the end of the summer the brothers and College Hunks Hauling Junk had made $10,000. That was a pretty nice haul for a couple of dudes seeking summer beer money.

Omar and Nick were groomed to get a good job. The summer business was cool and the corporate world awaited the brothers. Omar worked in marketing and Nick worked in economics. Seemed like the brothers were settled into a life of steady corporate success. Something was missing and pulling at the two.

Shortly after setting out on the corporate world Nick emailed Omar and reignited their success path with College Hunks Hauling Junk. The time was now and they dove back into the business. Their business was truly born.

Both worked hard to build a business and their real passion. They had missteps along the way. On one occasion the brothers bid too low on a job and lost money. These were lessons, which helped their learning curve. As with any business, there are lessons to be learned, errors to be made, and persistence to embrace.

The key to ultimate success with Omar and Nick’s business was their belief that it would work out. They found failing forward a better option than throwing in the towel. To give up is to fail. To go up is to succeed.

College Hunks Hauling Junk started as a simple business to support a summer beer habit and turned into a big time success. The brothers toiled, marketed, and persisted until a large junk hauling business was the replacement for a marketing and economics career.

Learn to Fail Forward

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Of the hundreds of self-help books on my bookshelf very few remain memorable and continuously at the forefront of my conscious mind. These few masterpieces have become my reference points to a better life. They may help guide you to the life you imagine as well.

The three books that come to mind are:

Millionaire Course – By Marc Allen

See You at the Top – By Zig Ziglar

Failing Forward – By John C. Maxwell

Each of those books had a profound impact on my life. Each book helped me discover my sweet spot for success. A sweet spot for me was engaging in activities related to activities that caused my heart to sing.

Reading and rereading these books helped mold success into my life. I was way off track for the longest time. My false notion of success was equated to dollars and fame. Chase both of those landed me in a dark hole of failure, disappointment, and depression.

Of the three books, the one that stands out over the others is Failing Forward. The entire premise of this dynamic books is failing is nature. It’s okay to fail. It’s not okay to allow failure to engross your mind and life.

Failing Forward is a journey. As you travel the road toward success you will encounter failures. Be prepared and be armed to push past those set backs. All successful people pushed past the failure and found success. This is what failing forward is all about. Never quit. Keep learning, adjusting, and moving toward success.

Winning Too Much

Somebody once gave me some sage advice. The advice was, “Sometimes you have to lose in order to win.” My immediate resistance was, “Let someone beat me!? Are you insane?” Then the advice sunk into my thick skull.

If I allow someone to gain the upper hand (win) and I back down from always needing to be right or win, then I am showing patience, power, and strength in my cause.

In my case, I was always looking for the win. I was a competitor, a survivor, and nobody was going to beat me. This tended to rub people the wrong way and helped me create followers who were on edge or not trusting of Spence. When I chose to allow them to win now so I might win the war later, then things shifted for me. My leadership ability grew. Trust for my causes grew. I became the magnet I needed to become to be an effective leader who was trusted.

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What are you holding onto so tight that it is pushing people away from you? Do you tend to win too much, need to be right all the time, or mistrust others? Take a day or a week to find out what your weakest point is and choose to build a plan to go a different direction.